Caleb Refuge, age 27

Lost to gun violence on December 11, 2021 in Marrero, Louisiana.

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  • Nickname:
    14 Mickey Mike
    11 Uncle Caleb
    7 Michael
    7 Cake Man
    2 Rico
    2 Rico Chop
  • Number of children:
    3 He wanted so badly to be a father. That dream was stolen from him 💔
  • Personality:
    10 Joyful and Loving
    11 a smile that could light up a room and heart that did not know haters and anger
    9 La goofy just friendly to any and everyone. A stolen gem!
    6 selfless and giving
    5 Family was first in his life. He had a big welcoming heart ❤️
  • Occupation:
    8 Welder
  • Workplace:
  • Schools attended:
    7 La Port High/Marques Academy
  • Comments:
    12 Caleb is a stolen treasure from not only his family but all those who were gifted to know him
    6 My sweet baby brother was stolen from our family… how do we move on from here
    10 I want his killer to know when he stole Caleb’s life he destroyed the lives of many…
    9 My nephew Caleb taken unexpectedly will aways be in my heart gone to soon
    6 He had a big heart and always gave everyone a chance. He loved family and welcomed all
    5 I think about you all day and dream of you every night. This is agonizing 💔
    7 My baby brother and GodSon. My love for you will never end. 💔Life hurts without you 💔
    7 I never stop thinking about you. My heart is forever broken baby brother 🥀
    6 I love you forever. I like you for always; as long as I’m living my baby you’ll be.🌹💔
    5 I’m so proud of the love you shared and the man you were continuing to become I miss you 😢
    3 I don’t want this to be real! The pain is never ending! Love and miss you much 😔
    6 We’re sorry that you had to go but you still live on in our hearts
    4 I miss you a lot I hope you happy🥺 your always my favorite
    5 Love you and you are everybody favorite
    7 😡🥺😡🥺😡🥺😡🥺😡🥺
    4 I miss you more than words can say. I pray for joyful memories to This painful emptiness
    3 The pain of loss is only eased my the joy of your memory ❤️
    3 Our lives forever changed when you left. It’s agony not having you but God needed you home 🧡❤️💛
    3 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. – Matthew 5:4
    3 I love you baby brother. This pain is so hard. Know always you are loved.
    4 Because you are a beautiful soul and ultimately trust/believe in promised salvation; you live on👼🏼
    5 It's been 30 days of agony. Feels like yesterday I lost a peice of my heart. 💔
    2 Oh baby brother… time keeps passing but I’m frozen. I can’t accept this reality
    4 Dear Caleb the yesterday of your parting, will forever be our today….
    4 We will honor and carry you though our todays….
    3 First by demonstrating our love of family.. ,
    3 Than by our willingness to help others with kindness and forgiveness 🌹💔🌹❤️
    4 Forever in my heart and always in my mind! My baby brother 🥀
    3 God is the True authority and the day of Truth is promised to us all
    3 We know who and what manner of man live on in our hearts🌹💔❤️‍🩹❤️
    5 Caleb: a young man who Truly loves his family and sincerely cared about others
    3 I’m upset that a person I love has been reduced to photos and memories
    5 Caleb was physically stolen from us, but we have assurance that his spirit lives on 🌹❤️‍🩹❤️
    3 I love you so much. You were stolen but your spirit lives on.
    4 Michael… Not one moment I won’t carry you in my heart. I love you without measure👑
    3 My baby brother Caleb ❤️ I miss you more every day. Wish you were here 🥀
    5 Caleb Michael Refuge… Your LOVE lives on; to help us live and love 💗 🌹❤️‍🩹❤️
    3 I don’t get to hear you say “Happy Birthday Shayka” 😩💔
    8 There is an emptiness and a pain that won’t go away. I love you Caleb Michael
    4 Each day I press on to adjust 💔🌹❤️‍🩹
    4 To change the painful void of your absence 💔🌹🥺
    4 To a vault of your Beloved memories, driven by your ambition 💔🌹😢
    3 I never thought I would have to live life without Caleb. His killer stole from us!
    5 They can take the future that we’ll never know. But they can never have yesterday
    2 If I could start over tonight, if we could give this just more try 💔😔
    3 😭😢😭😞🌹💔❤️‍🩹😔
    4 The fact that our beloved Caleb is gone into his eternal life, is hard ….
    3 The way he left (was taken), makes this fact almost impossible to adjust this life👍🏽🌹💔❤️‍🩹
    3 😠😢💔🌹❤️‍🩹
    3 Brother I love you so much! I will forever be sad/hurt that my Caleb Michael is gone
    4 However he is born again! Rejoice for the Lord our God is with Caleb ❤️
    4 Yes! He is reborn and in the presence of glory! Hallelujah ❤️😇
    3 We must all adjust and live your legacy of Love, forgiveness and compassion 😢🌹💔❤️‍🩹
    4 I still have moments of this reality and it hurts so bad. I love you baby I love you for eternity ❤️
    5 Lester killed our entire family when he stole your life. This reality is so hard to live with.
    4 I love and miss you always and forever 😘
    3 🌹💔I look forward to our reunion, till then I’ll miss you and do my best adjust 🌹❤️‍🩹❤️
    3 Lester took the time I had left to spend with my baby brother. How can I forgive the unforgivable!
    2 My child who remains: You
    5 Forgive the unforgivable by honoring Caleb’s request of forgiveness for promised Reunion🥀🌹
    5 👀The article isn’t accurate. This isn’t what happened. I’m sorry for you young man.👀
    4 I still catch myself thinking I can pick up the phone. I miss you baby brother 😣
    2 I miss you more each day 😔🥀I cling to the memories of your love, joy and amazing smile 🌹❤️‍🩹
    6 ☀️ You’re still my sunshine my special sunshine you still make me happy everyday☀️ ILuvU
    4 I miss you immensely! This pain is indescribable. I can’t heal from this
    4 You are and will forever be my “Fragile Heart” (Yolanda Adams)🥀💔🙏🌹❤️‍🩹
    5 As I cried again tonight I smelled the sweetest smell. I love you to baby brother 😘
    3 I Love You beyond this life…🥀❤️‍🩹
    5 I can’t stop thinking of you! My heart cries for you! I love you brother ❤️
    4 I am honored to be your big sis. I wish we had more time. I love you fat boy
    4 Everything reminds me of you. You are all around me 🥀
    4 Your life will live on through your mother!
    3 You are my fragile heart; I can’t give up this fight ❤️‍🩹
    3 Caleb: My fragile heart, I will not give up this fight ❤️‍🩹🌹❤️
    4 I can’t stop thinking of you! 🥀😔 I wanted more time but you were taken in an instant
    4 I’m so sorry this happened to you brother! You didn’t deserve to be betrayed this way…
    4 😘I Love you I love you I love you baby brother 😘 That will never stop
    5 😇 The physical world lost a REAL Angel 💎 the spiritual world gained a worrier 🔱
    4 My heart cries for you! I love you so much! Till we meet again 😢
    4 I love you!💕 forever our baby brother 😘
    4 Another day my heart breaks again! I miss you so much!
    7 Lester, you will burn in hell for this and so will the two females that set him up.
    3 I’m hurting. You play on repeat in my mind. I’m shattered brother.
    5 I want to tell myself this isn’t true! You’re just off working. Then I remember 12/14/21 💔
    4 I still cry every day brother. We miss you here! Our parents miss their baby boy 💔
    5 This is such a hard reality to live with. Your siblings are living with sorrow without you.
    5 ❤️Saying I love you forever will never be enough❤️I love you for eternity❤️
    5 It’s been almost three months since you were taken 😭 it hurts!
    7 I miss you everyday and night, all day and night🥀❤️‍🩹🌹
    6 Today makes 3 months since your life was stolen. Ours haven’t been the same.
    4 If I could go backwards in time, would you help me go back 🎶
    5 I miss you more every day! Time can never heal this tragic loss
    4 😞For a second I forgot and picked up my cell to call you 💔
    7 My heart breaks over and over again 💔
    7 Last night and today feel tougher than normal 💔 I’ll never be 100% happy again
    7 These past few days have been so rough…. Your life was stolen and so was mine.
    4 No amount of time can heal this loss. I’m forever broken baby brother 💔
    3 3 We must all adjust and live your legacy of Love, forgiveness…..
    3 …understanding, compassion and acceptance for the greater Glory 🥀❤️‍🩹🌹❤️
    3 There’s no remedy for memories, your face is like a melody, it won’t leave my head 🎵
    3 💔 If I could turn back the clock I'd spend every second keeping you safe💔
    3 we will always love you
    4 Dear uncle I love you I will miss you I think of you all the time I am sorry if I did anything wrong
    4 And I will always love you no matter what❤️🥺
    4 Still hurts the same! Missing you baby brother 05/11/22
    5 Hope and love last beyond the end baby brother 🧡💛💝
    1 I miss you! 🌹❤️‍🩹
    5 How do I live without the one I love! I have so much to say but you’re so far away.
    1 12/11/21 @ 7:11 pm my entire life changed….
    1 By the hands of Lester Simmons and his wicked mother and friends 😡
    2 All MURDERERS will come…
    2 To Justice! If not in this life in their life to come❤️‍🩹
    1 It’s 6/26/22… I hate seeing your here bro.
    6 When all is gone it can’t be regained, we can’t seem to shelter the pain inside…
    7 7/20/22 “I keep holding on to you but I can’t bring you back to life” 💔
    2 8/20/22 just sitting here thinking about you… wishing you survived this unforgivable act.
    3 I just left your final resting place…
    4 It feels that I miss you more each day…
    5 I know now my heart will never heal…
    6 I’ll keep doing one of the life lessons I thought all of you…
    6 I’ll keep doing the best that I can, come what may 🥀🥀💔❤️‍🩹
    6 I want to say so much but it won’t be enough to express my missing you and love.
    3 ❤️I hear you❤️I feel you❤️Got your message❤️#SpiritWalker
    1 9/02/22 light years above, time seems to wait, promise to see you again ❤️🧡💛
    3 ❤️Thanks for the heads up❤️I love you without boundaries❤️9/7/22 SpiritWalker
    7 9/15/22 not a day goes by that I don’t think of you! I love you beyond forever baby brother
    2 I love you; I miss you. Caleb you are forever Dearly Loved🌹❤️‍🩹
    2 The closer your BDay gets the more my 💔. I❤️u.
    3 10/17/22 Happy Birthday baby brother 💕 I love you always!
    3 Happy Birthday baby💔❤️‍🩹🥀🌹
    6 it was hard not being able to tell you happy birthday yesterday. F U lester
    5 10/28/22 life is strange without you… I want to go backwards in time
    8 💔💔💔I miss you Immensely
    6 You still a fat boy to me lol “jiggle my fat” 🤣
    4 11/24/22 Happy Thanksgiving Fatty! We miss you!
    5 11/27/22 I can’t believe it’s been a year since I heard your voice
    4 If I would have known 11/27/21 would be our last conversation….
    4 12/09/22 the anniversary of the worst day of my life is almost here 😢
    5 It’s been one very difficult year without you
    4 I love you for eternity 12/11
    2 12/19/22 I’ll have a blue Christmas without you 💔😢
    1 Merry Christmas baby…let our Lord;
    1 Immanuel know I thank him for being our Savior
    4 Still in disbelief and replying it over and over in my head
    2 I drink almost every day since you left. I miss you
    2 You’re the best thing I never knew I needed

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