Latoya Gary, age 43

Lost to gun violence on December 2, 2021 in Upper Darby, Pennsylvania.

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  • Nickname:
    383 Toya
  • Number of children:
    358 2 grandkids
    353 Another grand
    49 U got 3 grandsons & 1 granddaughter
  • Personality:
    361 FUNNY outgoing LOYAL REAL
    407 Gambler, shopper love you mom JP❤️
  • Occupation:
    353 Home health aid
  • Workplace:
    353 Suma home care
  • Schools attended:
  • Comments:
    374 REST IN PEACE🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
    363 Rip niece
    428 RIP Mom JP❤️
    422 I wish you were here love you JP❤️
    362 missing you niece
    369 Missing You Toya
    418 Getting hard for your boy😔love you mom JP❤️
    409 Damn twin I can wait until we reunite forever❤️ JP
    401 Hate that you was robbed for your life meet me at the gates my love JP❤️
    390 I miss you dearly my love ❤️JP
    360 I love youuu auntiee 🥰🕊
    365 We miss you!
    362 🕊❤️❤️❤️❤️ ONLY AUNTIEEEE I MISSSS YOUUU SOO MUCHHHH - Tamera 🥰
    362 🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
    362 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
    384 RIP Ms Toya🕊❣️ Kylatz
    369 I wish there was away I could swap with you🥲
    365 God allowed that sucker to take you from us💔
    364 Damn homie, I wish I could hear ur voice and laughter 1 more time ma 💜🕊🕊
    368 Your son misses you dearly 🥲💔
    356 6 months, but this shit feel like a lifetime I wish I could take your place💔
    361 Its not da same without sis
    363 I miss you💔
    363 We miss you Ms Toya🤕 wish you could’ve had more time with grandma baby🥺
    364 Your son needs you 🥹
    349 ❣️❣️❣️ first 4th with out you auntie I love you
    364 I need you 💔
    359 ur mom & family misses u sooo much😘💔🕊️🕊️
    359 rest up
    356 I still can’t fathom why he would do this to you
    353 🌹🌹🕊️🕊️🕊️
    356 Need you mom😞🥲
    353 It should've been me
    351 🫤💔💔I’m ready to be with you
    350 I miss you dearly my love 💕
    350 10 months💔I miss you and I love you dearly 💕
    351 Right now we’d be on the phone planning your 44th bday💔💔
    351 You got 2 grandsons that would’ve loved to meet your crazy loud mouth😂💕
    344 We miss you & wish you were still here!!💜🕯️
    343 I’m broken without you mom😔💔
    344 11 months mom and this your birthday month I’m hurt baby girl continue resting see you soon💕
    344 11 months auntie 💔🥺 still don’t feel real man
    343 Thanksgiving, your birthday then your one year in heaven still feels unreal😔💔🥹
    341 I wish I could just talk to you one more time videos aren’t doing it I need to hear your voice 🥲
    338 😢😢🕯🕯🕯
    338 Missing you twin🥺💔
    335 Happy thanks giving your not here to celebrate shit corny
    334 🎈🎈Happy 44th birthday Sis 🎈🎈🕯🕯🕯🕊🕊
    335 I love and miss you dearly💕 1 year in heaven 😔
    331 Wish I could get a phone call from you 😔 I’d settle for the dream visitation💕
    331 Missing u dis Xmas sis🥲🥲
    328 I know ur watching over ur sis,, I'm tryna 2
    326 continue to rest, I got ur sis
    326 You were suppose to be here to babysit your crazy grand daughter🙄 she drives us up the walls 😭
    327 rest well I got ur sis
    323 🥂Happy New Years Sis🎉🎉🕯🕊🕊
    323 rest in peace
    320 Rip ms toya💕 we miss you. Wish you were here!
    315 I wish you could come back 💔😔
    316 Life isn’t the same without you I’m not the same
    311 Damn sis😢😢 1st bday without u but u were ma sister ma strength nd ma pride…I miss u 😘
    313 I can’t stop thinking about you my love 💔
    312 Year and 3 months and it feel like yesterday I got the call 4 hours away I couldn’t save you💔
    303 Ur new 2nd grandson is here👣💙
    302 LONG LIVE SIS 🗣😩🥲
    298 God could’ve given you another chance 💔🥲
    298 Think about you everyday my love I’m broken without you💔
    293 Happy Mother’s Day Mom💐💕
    293 Happy Mother’s Day Sis🌸
    292 Damn sis I really u 😘 😞🥲 wish u were here! 🥲🥲
    288 I miss you so much mom😔❤️
    280 Happy 4th sis, I miss u 🥲
    279 Happy 4th of July wish you were here to go to AC with us tomorrow we know you love AC❤️
    288 Goodmorning Sis, I miss u!!😢
    269 LLT ❤️U. U WILL 4EVA BE MISSED, ❤️ SIS😢😡🕊️🕊️
    272 🗣️Ya BIRTHDAY 🥳 in 3months Sis!! 🥲🥲
    266 I’m salty this shit finally going good for me and you not here I owe you the world💔
    257 I need you twin 💔🥲this shit really real I need you back
    252 Damn Sis it’s sum unfinished thangs we need 2tlk bout && answers I need 2knw😢😢👌🏿
    253 how do I have never met you I have met the people whose lives you have touched
    252 Your birthday in 2 months💔I’m going to make it as special as you were🥲💕
    251 Thinking of you. Rest well🕯💓
    251 I WILL NEVER FORGET U. ❤️Sis
    245 Missing you💔
    244 Missing you Sis😢, Continue resting….I love ❤️u 💐🕊️
    243 Hey Sis, is notta day DONT go by…lightning u a candle erryday😢🕊️
    243 👀 Missin’ Ma only Sistah…I EVA HAD!! LLTOYA🕊️🕊️🕊️
    242 Happy thanksgiving sis. Ur favorite holiday. Wen u cooks 4ur family🦃🕊️🕊️
    241 Damn sis ya bday is in 2mre days. Not ready fa dis again. 😢🕊️
    240 🎈🎈HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY TO U. LLTOYA🎉🥂
    239 HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY LOVE I MISS YOU MORE THAN ANYONE COULD IMAGINE I LOVE YOU💕
    237 We missed u sis
    238 Merry Christmas 🎄 Sis. I will always ❤️ nd Misses u😢 🎁 “ CONTINUE RESTING”🕊️🕊️
    238 Happy New Year’s Sis, Damn I wish I was here! 💔🥂🍾
    239 I miss you mom💔❤️❤️❤️
    234 Lighting a candle for you 3:15am. We up Thinking of you🤍 rip Ms toya!
    233 I don’t miss a day lighting a candle nd thinking of u erryday ma only
    233 🥲🥲🥲Ma Only Sis💔 Continue resting 💐💐💐
    230 Ur son, ya grands, ya mom, ya bro && nieces nd nephews..Thinking of u as well. We MISS U🕊️🕊️
    230 Ur 3 grands ❤️ & misses RIP GRANDMA 🕊️🕊️🕊️
    224 Thinking 🤔 of u Sis. Rest up🥲🕊️🕊️💔🌹🌹
    217 I miss you my love😔🫶🏿
    211 Good morning 🌞 Sis. I miss u! 🥲🥲🕊️🕊️🕊️💔🌹🌸💐🌺🌷
    210 Damn Sis, it’s a lot of shyt dats happening. Dat u need 2 knw. ❤️u!
    209 🤔 Thinking of u Sis🥲🌹
    206 Happy Easter🐣 Sis🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️
    197 Good Mawning! Sis🥲🕊️🕊️🕊️
    181 I miss you 🥹🥹🥹I need you 💔💔💔
    176 Damn! Mother’s Day is coming again. I wish I can visit u on dat day…Sis😢🕊️💐
    169 Happy Mother’s Day 💐💐💐Sis, Getcho rest 😢
    166 Happy Mother’s Day Mom I love you and miss you dearly 🫶🏿🫶🏿💕
    160 Thinking of u Sis, wtf he did dat 2u….U DONT DESERVE IT😢😢
    143 It’s our mom b’day 2day….Dis is fa u Sis🍰😢💔
    138 Thinking of you as always I love and miss you ❤️‍🩹
    137 Damn sis, I wish u was here
    119 Ur new nephew is here. His name is Messiah, he love & misses u! ❤️😩
    107 U daughter had got married nd didn’t even tell nobody bout it🌚
    107 Thinking of u Sis. We went thru so much 2gatha. Continue 2REST. Miss ya 😩🥲💔❤️🌹
    103 Hey Sis, ya bday coming up again. I miss u. GETCHA REST‼️ I miss u
    89 Your grandma baby said you always visit her and say hey girl 😂❤️
    82 It’s ur birthday month…Sis, time to celebrate again…THINKING OF U
    82 In a month it’ll be 3 years💔💔I miss you my love can’t wait til we together forever
    80 Shout out 🎈🎈🎈ITS DAT TIME AGAIN SIS 🥲🥲
    77 Happy 46th Birthday Sis
    77 Happy heavenly birthday my love I miss and love you dearly 💕
    76 Today make 3 years without you🥹I miss hearing you yell I’d do anything to have you back
    76 I knw dats rht….SIS
    73 Ur family realli misses u. 🕊️LLSIS🕊️🎈🎈
    72 Merry Christmas 🎄 Sis
    72 Gotta anutha grand on da way…now u gonna have 4 grands. Dat loves u! Rip Sis…Finish RESTING 🕊️🕊️🎈
    72 Is 2025 now
    70 Hey Sis, EAGLES 🦅 is goin 2 da SUPER-BOWL!!
    70 U gotta anutha Grandson on the way. So now u got 1 granddaughter && 3 grandsons
    71 You missed a lot my love sonny birth lil quan birth how big and bad these kids got💔
    68 Not a day goes by and yiu don’t cross my mind my heart forever broken💔🕊️
    66 Damn Sis WE NEED U HERE!
    65 Happy Mother’s Day Sis 🌺🌸💐
    65 Happy Mother’s Day mom I love you❤️❤️❤️
    64 Hey sis, mom is not doin 2 good
    63 Hey sis, ya new grandson was born nd he’s handsome
    62 I need you right now I need you to guide me and give me the strength to get over this hump
    57 Hey sis, I know u see’s me doin really good and staying outta trouble
    52 Sis, mom just passed away on August 9 2025 at 11:16
    49 Mom been goin fa 2 weeks & a day. 😢😢 I miss yaw && love yaw both. 🌹🌹🌹
    46 Mom been goin for 3 weeks and a day now
    46 Mom getting cremated on Friday 09/05/25 and we all get to see her 1 last time. 🥲🥲
    45 Imma make sure u get sum of mom ashes. I miss u see u soon
    46 I miss u so much sis, now mom
    45 I can’t take it no more, I’m going thru a lot tryna stay focus, I’m crying as I’m writing dis😢😢😢
    45 RIP mom
    44 I miss you so much💔
    43 Hey sis, Mom got cremated alrdy 😢🥺😩☹️
    41 Trust me u gonna get sum of mom ashes too
    37 I MISS U SIS
    34 I See U Soon
    17 Hey sis ya bday is almost here again and now mom is not here to celebrate
    11 Dis is hard, ma 1st thanksgiving without u and mom here.🥲💐🦃
    11 🍁Happy Thanksgiving 🍁🦃 SIS! 🥲 Miss U!
    11 Happy birthday to ma only fckn Sister!
    9 Happy birthday mom I love you and mss you dearly❤️
    9 I be needing you I miss our phones calls and hearing your loud voice keep watching over the fam💔
    9 4 years and it feels like yesterday I remember that call that forever changed me💔
    8 Hey Sis, exactly 4yrs 2day since u been gone🥲 he, DIDNT have to do dat but he gonna get his
    2 Dang anutha Christmas down wit out u no
    2 Without u & now mom. Merry Christmas 🎄🎁 yaw I missed u guys soooo much

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