Latoya Gary, age 43

Lost to gun violence on December 2, 2021 in Upper Darby, Pennsylvania.

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  • Nickname:
    387 Toya
  • Number of children:
    362 2 grandkids
    357 Another grand
    53 U got 3 grandsons & 1 granddaughter
  • Personality:
    365 FUNNY outgoing LOYAL REAL
    411 Gambler, shopper love you mom JP❤️
  • Occupation:
    357 Home health aid
  • Workplace:
    357 Suma home care
  • Schools attended:
  • Comments:
    378 REST IN PEACE🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
    367 Rip niece
    432 RIP Mom JP❤️
    426 I wish you were here love you JP❤️
    366 missing you niece
    373 Missing You Toya
    422 Getting hard for your boy😔love you mom JP❤️
    413 Damn twin I can wait until we reunite forever❤️ JP
    405 Hate that you was robbed for your life meet me at the gates my love JP❤️
    394 I miss you dearly my love ❤️JP
    364 I love youuu auntiee 🥰🕊
    369 We miss you!
    366 🕊❤️❤️❤️❤️ ONLY AUNTIEEEE I MISSSS YOUUU SOO MUCHHHH - Tamera 🥰
    366 🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
    366 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
    388 RIP Ms Toya🕊❣️ Kylatz
    373 I wish there was away I could swap with you🥲
    369 God allowed that sucker to take you from us💔
    368 Damn homie, I wish I could hear ur voice and laughter 1 more time ma 💜🕊🕊
    372 Your son misses you dearly 🥲💔
    360 6 months, but this shit feel like a lifetime I wish I could take your place💔
    365 Its not da same without sis
    367 I miss you💔
    367 We miss you Ms Toya🤕 wish you could’ve had more time with grandma baby🥺
    368 Your son needs you 🥹
    353 ❣️❣️❣️ first 4th with out you auntie I love you
    368 I need you 💔
    363 ur mom & family misses u sooo much😘💔🕊️🕊️
    363 rest up
    360 I still can’t fathom why he would do this to you
    357 🌹🌹🕊️🕊️🕊️
    360 Need you mom😞🥲
    357 It should've been me
    355 🫤💔💔I’m ready to be with you
    354 I miss you dearly my love 💕
    354 10 months💔I miss you and I love you dearly 💕
    355 Right now we’d be on the phone planning your 44th bday💔💔
    355 You got 2 grandsons that would’ve loved to meet your crazy loud mouth😂💕
    348 We miss you & wish you were still here!!💜🕯️
    347 I’m broken without you mom😔💔
    348 11 months mom and this your birthday month I’m hurt baby girl continue resting see you soon💕
    348 11 months auntie 💔🥺 still don’t feel real man
    347 Thanksgiving, your birthday then your one year in heaven still feels unreal😔💔🥹
    345 I wish I could just talk to you one more time videos aren’t doing it I need to hear your voice 🥲
    342 😢😢🕯🕯🕯
    342 Missing you twin🥺💔
    339 Happy thanks giving your not here to celebrate shit corny
    338 🎈🎈Happy 44th birthday Sis 🎈🎈🕯🕯🕯🕊🕊
    339 I love and miss you dearly💕 1 year in heaven 😔
    335 Wish I could get a phone call from you 😔 I’d settle for the dream visitation💕
    335 Missing u dis Xmas sis🥲🥲
    332 I know ur watching over ur sis,, I'm tryna 2
    330 continue to rest, I got ur sis
    330 You were suppose to be here to babysit your crazy grand daughter🙄 she drives us up the walls 😭
    331 rest well I got ur sis
    327 🥂Happy New Years Sis🎉🎉🕯🕊🕊
    327 rest in peace
    324 Rip ms toya💕 we miss you. Wish you were here!
    319 I wish you could come back 💔😔
    320 Life isn’t the same without you I’m not the same
    315 Damn sis😢😢 1st bday without u but u were ma sister ma strength nd ma pride…I miss u 😘
    317 I can’t stop thinking about you my love 💔
    316 Year and 3 months and it feel like yesterday I got the call 4 hours away I couldn’t save you💔
    307 Ur new 2nd grandson is here👣💙
    306 LONG LIVE SIS 🗣😩🥲
    302 God could’ve given you another chance 💔🥲
    302 Think about you everyday my love I’m broken without you💔
    297 Happy Mother’s Day Mom💐💕
    297 Happy Mother’s Day Sis🌸
    296 Damn sis I really u 😘 😞🥲 wish u were here! 🥲🥲
    292 I miss you so much mom😔❤️
    284 Happy 4th sis, I miss u 🥲
    283 Happy 4th of July wish you were here to go to AC with us tomorrow we know you love AC❤️
    292 Goodmorning Sis, I miss u!!😢
    273 LLT ❤️U. U WILL 4EVA BE MISSED, ❤️ SIS😢😡🕊️🕊️
    276 🗣️Ya BIRTHDAY 🥳 in 3months Sis!! 🥲🥲
    270 I’m salty this shit finally going good for me and you not here I owe you the world💔
    261 I need you twin 💔🥲this shit really real I need you back
    256 Damn Sis it’s sum unfinished thangs we need 2tlk bout && answers I need 2knw😢😢👌🏿
    257 how do I have never met you I have met the people whose lives you have touched
    256 Your birthday in 2 months💔I’m going to make it as special as you were🥲💕
    255 Thinking of you. Rest well🕯💓
    255 I WILL NEVER FORGET U. ❤️Sis
    249 Missing you💔
    248 Missing you Sis😢, Continue resting….I love ❤️u 💐🕊️
    247 Hey Sis, is notta day DONT go by…lightning u a candle erryday😢🕊️
    247 👀 Missin’ Ma only Sistah…I EVA HAD!! LLTOYA🕊️🕊️🕊️
    246 Happy thanksgiving sis. Ur favorite holiday. Wen u cooks 4ur family🦃🕊️🕊️
    245 Damn sis ya bday is in 2mre days. Not ready fa dis again. 😢🕊️
    244 🎈🎈HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY TO U. LLTOYA🎉🥂
    243 HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY LOVE I MISS YOU MORE THAN ANYONE COULD IMAGINE I LOVE YOU💕
    241 We missed u sis
    242 Merry Christmas 🎄 Sis. I will always ❤️ nd Misses u😢 🎁 “ CONTINUE RESTING”🕊️🕊️
    242 Happy New Year’s Sis, Damn I wish I was here! 💔🥂🍾
    243 I miss you mom💔❤️❤️❤️
    238 Lighting a candle for you 3:15am. We up Thinking of you🤍 rip Ms toya!
    237 I don’t miss a day lighting a candle nd thinking of u erryday ma only
    237 🥲🥲🥲Ma Only Sis💔 Continue resting 💐💐💐
    234 Ur son, ya grands, ya mom, ya bro && nieces nd nephews..Thinking of u as well. We MISS U🕊️🕊️
    234 Ur 3 grands ❤️ & misses RIP GRANDMA 🕊️🕊️🕊️
    228 Thinking 🤔 of u Sis. Rest up🥲🕊️🕊️💔🌹🌹
    221 I miss you my love😔🫶🏿
    214 Good morning 🌞 Sis. I miss u! 🥲🥲🕊️🕊️🕊️💔🌹🌸💐🌺🌷
    214 Damn Sis, it’s a lot of shyt dats happening. Dat u need 2 knw. ❤️u!
    213 🤔 Thinking of u Sis🥲🌹
    210 Happy Easter🐣 Sis🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️
    201 Good Mawning! Sis🥲🕊️🕊️🕊️
    185 I miss you 🥹🥹🥹I need you 💔💔💔
    180 Damn! Mother’s Day is coming again. I wish I can visit u on dat day…Sis😢🕊️💐
    173 Happy Mother’s Day 💐💐💐Sis, Getcho rest 😢
    170 Happy Mother’s Day Mom I love you and miss you dearly 🫶🏿🫶🏿💕
    164 Thinking of u Sis, wtf he did dat 2u….U DONT DESERVE IT😢😢
    147 It’s our mom b’day 2day….Dis is fa u Sis🍰😢💔
    142 Thinking of you as always I love and miss you ❤️‍🩹
    141 Damn sis, I wish u was here
    123 Ur new nephew is here. His name is Messiah, he love & misses u! ❤️😩
    111 U daughter had got married nd didn’t even tell nobody bout it🌚
    111 Thinking of u Sis. We went thru so much 2gatha. Continue 2REST. Miss ya 😩🥲💔❤️🌹
    107 Hey Sis, ya bday coming up again. I miss u. GETCHA REST‼️ I miss u
    93 Your grandma baby said you always visit her and say hey girl 😂❤️
    86 It’s ur birthday month…Sis, time to celebrate again…THINKING OF U
    86 In a month it’ll be 3 years💔💔I miss you my love can’t wait til we together forever
    84 Shout out 🎈🎈🎈ITS DAT TIME AGAIN SIS 🥲🥲
    81 Happy 46th Birthday Sis
    81 Happy heavenly birthday my love I miss and love you dearly 💕
    80 Today make 3 years without you🥹I miss hearing you yell I’d do anything to have you back
    80 I knw dats rht….SIS
    77 Ur family realli misses u. 🕊️LLSIS🕊️🎈🎈
    76 Merry Christmas 🎄 Sis
    76 Gotta anutha grand on da way…now u gonna have 4 grands. Dat loves u! Rip Sis…Finish RESTING 🕊️🕊️🎈
    76 Is 2025 now
    74 Hey Sis, EAGLES 🦅 is goin 2 da SUPER-BOWL!!
    74 U gotta anutha Grandson on the way. So now u got 1 granddaughter && 3 grandsons
    75 You missed a lot my love sonny birth lil quan birth how big and bad these kids got💔
    72 Not a day goes by and yiu don’t cross my mind my heart forever broken💔🕊️
    70 Damn Sis WE NEED U HERE!
    69 Happy Mother’s Day Sis 🌺🌸💐
    69 Happy Mother’s Day mom I love you❤️❤️❤️
    68 Hey sis, mom is not doin 2 good
    67 Hey sis, ya new grandson was born nd he’s handsome
    66 I need you right now I need you to guide me and give me the strength to get over this hump
    61 Hey sis, I know u see’s me doin really good and staying outta trouble
    56 Sis, mom just passed away on August 9 2025 at 11:16
    53 Mom been goin fa 2 weeks & a day. 😢😢 I miss yaw && love yaw both. 🌹🌹🌹
    50 Mom been goin for 3 weeks and a day now
    50 Mom getting cremated on Friday 09/05/25 and we all get to see her 1 last time. 🥲🥲
    49 Imma make sure u get sum of mom ashes. I miss u see u soon
    50 I miss u so much sis, now mom
    49 I can’t take it no more, I’m going thru a lot tryna stay focus, I’m crying as I’m writing dis😢😢😢
    49 RIP mom
    48 I miss you so much💔
    47 Hey sis, Mom got cremated alrdy 😢🥺😩☹️
    45 Trust me u gonna get sum of mom ashes too
    41 I MISS U SIS
    38 I See U Soon
    21 Hey sis ya bday is almost here again and now mom is not here to celebrate
    15 Dis is hard, ma 1st thanksgiving without u and mom here.🥲💐🦃
    15 🍁Happy Thanksgiving 🍁🦃 SIS! 🥲 Miss U!
    15 Happy birthday to ma only fckn Sister!
    13 Happy birthday mom I love you and mss you dearly❤️
    13 I be needing you I miss our phones calls and hearing your loud voice keep watching over the fam💔
    13 4 years and it feels like yesterday I remember that call that forever changed me💔
    12 Hey Sis, exactly 4yrs 2day since u been gone🥲 he, DIDNT have to do dat but he gonna get his
    6 Dang anutha Christmas down wit out u no
    6 Without u & now mom. Merry Christmas 🎄🎁 yaw I missed u guys soooo much
    4 Happy New Years Sis 2026🥂🌹
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