James C. Gray Jr, ageΒ 16

Lost to gun violence on January 2, 2020 in Kokomo, Indiana.

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  • Nickname:
    26 JJ
    1 TT Mel
    3 Savage
    3 savagejj🌍
  • Number of children:
    5 0
  • Personality:
    8 funny
    8 caring
    7 chill,goofy
    3 lovable
  • Occupation:
    4 the loved son
  • Workplace:
  • Schools attended:
    3 Kokomo High School
    2 Mckinley
    1 STSJP
  • Comments:
    12 I love and will miss him! Put the guns down!!!!!
    3 I Hate They Did This To Mt Cousin Its Just Not rite
    4 I love you jj πŸ’”πŸ˜˜
    1 Your tee tee Love you so much
    1 GoodMoring nephewπŸ’”πŸ‘Ό
    2 just thinking about you tee tee miss so much
    2 Love u JJβ€οΈπŸ˜”
    2 Long live James man we miss you✊🏼πŸ˜₯
    4 Mommy loves and misses youπŸ’•πŸ€£
    1 GoodMoring nephew i love you πŸ’―πŸ™πŸΎ
    2 Today is the day. Don’t know how I’m gonna make it😒😒
    1 I love you JJ and will always love you baby fly high cuzπŸ₯°πŸ₯°
    2 watch over yo mom and dad and slibings they need u
    2 Good night mommas babyπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 You are loved
    3 Good morning babyπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 HEY MY TEE BABY I MISS YOU I WILL NEVER FOR GET YOU
    1 Love you, JJ
    3 Put the guns down!
    1 Love you JJπŸ’”
    8 πŸ’•πŸ’•
    2 πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 Love u JJβ€οΈπŸ˜‡
    1 I miss you and love you always
    1 Up thinking about you man this shit hurt so I love ❀️ you nephew
    2 Good morning mommas babyπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 how can we go on with out you its just not fair love you nephew πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ’”
    1 how can life go on with you i love you nephew πŸ’”
    1 πŸ˜’πŸ’•
    1 luv you lil cuzπŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ˜«πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί
    1 Good morning babyπŸ’•
    1 good morning nephew
    1 hey cuz we missing you down here, hope u seen my brother and you with him πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ˜˜πŸ’‰
    2 Good morning mommas baby. I’m missing you badly πŸ’”πŸ’”
    1 I’ll light a candle for you everyday πŸ•― πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 GMπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 hey cuz we miss u soo much . hope u and bro laughing looking at us πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ₯Ί
    1 nephew I'm a day behind but I do my best to light a candle every day love you and miss you
    1 gn cousinnnβ€οΈπŸ•Šrest easyπŸ’”πŸ₯Ί
    1 GM babyπŸ’• I luv you so muchπŸ˜’πŸ’•
    1 I love you, and miss you every single day
    1 Fly high cuzzo listen to your music everyday i miss you big cuz
    1 Gramma misses you so much l love you always
    1 JJ hey lil cuz πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ₯€we miss u so much watch ova yo mom πŸ–€πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯€
    1 gm lil cuz πŸ₯€πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ’‰πŸ˜˜β€οΈ
    1 JJ I am so heart broken that its hard to function l miss you and l love you so much
    2 πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•luv you mamas babyπŸ’•
    1 love you baby boy
    1 I love N miss you already.πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”
    1 Justice for JJ Love you Baby
    1 Justice for jjπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 Good morning, JJ🎈❀️
    1 gm lil cuz πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ–€β€οΈ
    2 Good morning JJ gramma misses and loves you so much we will get justice for you πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­
    1 Goodnight nephew 😭😭😭
    2 Good morning 🌞 mommas babyπŸ’•
    1 hey lil cuz πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ’‰πŸ–€
    3 im sorry prayers to his mom I see how bad ur hurting and I know ur pain πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­
    1 Goodnight tee tee baby
    1 i miss you so much jj how do we go on
    1 Love you, JJπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”
    1 JJ, your senseless dearh will bot be in vain! Love you, babe❀️
    1 love u lil cuz πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€β€οΈπŸ–€πŸ•ŠπŸ’‰πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜love you
    1 l miss you and l love you always πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”
    1 Good morning mommas babyπŸ’•
    1 Hey babyπŸ’•
    1 lil cuz we miss u you n bro betta keep watchn us πŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ•ŠπŸ•Š
    1 Luv you πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 GOODNIGHT BABY tee tee really miss you
    1 l really need you JJ to help me get thru this l am πŸ’”πŸ˜­πŸ˜­
    1 gm lil cuz πŸ₯€πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ–€πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜
    1 GM TEE TEE love you
    1 Missing you something crazy today πŸ’•
    1 GM babyπŸ’•
    1 l love you and miss you more everyday πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­
    1 Thinking of you πŸ’•πŸ’•
    2 Your going to be an uncleπŸ’•πŸ’• you would have been the bestπŸ’•πŸ˜©
    1 Love u JJ🀞🏽❀️
    1 morning lil cuzπŸ₯€πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ–€πŸ₯°
    1 Goodnight baby... please come see me in my dreams! πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 Your mother and grandmother need you to watch over us we love you so much
    1 Hey bby! Please protect Abbie πŸ’” ik the feeling of losn a brother.πŸ•Šshe hurting
    1 Good morning JJ I love you so much and this is the worst thing thats ever happened to me
    1 afternoon lil cuz i miss seein u on snap LLJJπŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ˜˜
    1 Hey babyπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 Good morning πŸ’•πŸ’•
    2 hey lil cuz yall got the sun shinning today love u baby πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ–€
    1 Good morning JJ gramma misses you and will never forget you love you alwaysπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­
    1 ever since you left i been So lost w/o YouπŸ˜ͺLove you sm BbyB n miss u like crazyπŸ’”πŸ˜–
    1 love u JJ❀️🀞🏽I keep watchn videos of uπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ i really miss yo lil funny assπŸ˜”
    1 love you always πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­
    1 I miss you so muchπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 hey lil cuz miss seeing yo lil ass πŸ–€πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ–€πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜
    1 i love you baby we got you down these ways πŸ₯°
    1 I miss you so so muchπŸ’•πŸ˜­πŸ˜­
    1 gm li cuz πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ˜˜
    2 love u❀️🀞🏽
    1 rest in heaven ❀️
    1 l love you and miss you so much
    1 tee tee miss you
    1 so many dark days without You.. lotta days we was all we had
    1 Gm baby πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 l love you JJ watch over your mommy and the rest of your family we are all heartbroken
    1 gm lil cuz πŸ–€πŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ˜‡πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜
    1 Gramma loves you so much
    1 I love and miss you so so muchπŸ’•πŸ’• idk how I’m supposed to do this
    1 morning lil cuz πŸ–€πŸ₯€πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ€—πŸ˜˜
    1 wassup lil cous we definitely missing you .πŸ’•πŸ₯Ί
    1 Gm babyπŸ’•
    1 Love u JJ...I miss seeing u everyday...I miss yo sneaky ass smile and goofy ass ways❀️❀️🀞🏽
    1 Miss you so much you are my perfect angle
    1 Good nite JJ, continue to look over your loved ones. I love you alwaysπŸ’”
    1 πŸ’•
    2 Good morning my perfect angel happy valentine's day you will always be my valentine
    1 Happy Valentine’s Day πŸ’•πŸ’•
    2 hey cuz happy valentines day baby πŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ–€πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜
    1 Happy Valentines nephew love you
    1 Happy Valentines Dayβ€οΈπŸ•ŠπŸ˜”
    1 l love you and miss you more every day
    1 lil cuz miss you you baby πŸ–€πŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ˜˜
    1 Luv uπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 I miss you so muchπŸ’•πŸ˜­πŸ’•
    2 best thing to ever happen to meπŸ€•i misses you babyπŸ₯ΊπŸ”
    1 gn lil cuz miss u baby πŸ₯€πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ–€πŸ˜˜
    1 l miss you honey Grammas not the same without you l love you
    1 Goodnight πŸ’€ πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 Gm mommas babyπŸ’•
    1 Another long day without you honey. lts not ever going to be ok without you l love you
    1 ❀️🀞🏽
    2 GmπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 You came to me in a dream to help ease my mind Gramma loves you so much
    1 l miss you and love you always πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ₯€πŸ₯€
    1 hey lil cuz πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ₯€πŸ•Š
    1 l miss you honey l love you
    1 hey lil cuz πŸ–€πŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ˜˜
    2 hate hearing everybody hurt.. let then know you okay! love you JJπŸ€πŸ’”πŸ•Š
    1 l miss you and love you more everydayπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ₯€πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­
    1 Good morning precious πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 gm ❀️🀞🏽
    1 GN precious πŸ’•
    2 Missing you more everyday πŸ’•
    1 Another long day without you. Why Lord did you take him from us
    1 You are forever my sunshine, my beautiful boy. I love you completely and wholeheartedly.
    1 Luv u precious baby πŸ’•
    1 Thinking of youπŸ’•
    1 hey cuz πŸ˜˜πŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ–€miss u
    1 love u JJ❀️🀞🏽 we missing u babyboyπŸ˜”
    1 l will never understand this or get over it and l will always love you
    1 How could this happen to someone as innocent as you l love you dearly
    1 My heart aches everydayπŸ’•
    1 cuz we miss you.πŸ₯Ίnd wrap ho arms around ur mom πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ–€πŸ₯€πŸ˜˜
    1 The beginnin of another day without you love always.
    1 Good morning sweetheart gramma misses you. l love you for infinityπŸ˜”πŸ˜‡πŸ’—πŸ’”
    1 Luv u precious πŸ’•
    1 I hate it here without youπŸ’•
    1 Life is not the same without you. l want to be with you l love you
    1 l will always grieve you and never forget you love you forever
    2 love u JJ❀️🀞🏽
    1 Gramma misses you so much, l feel like a major part of my life has been stolen from me l love u
    1 Good night, JJ. Love N miss you🌹❀️
    2 I love you nephew
    1 I miss your face so... so.... much πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 How could God give us such a great gift then take you away l don't understand πŸ˜“πŸ˜“πŸ’”
    1 l miss you and love you more everyday
    1 Another day of grief sorrow and reminiscing l love you JJ
    3 l love you always
    1 Maybe one day living won't be so hard without you, but for now every breath is painful. l miss you
    1 l hope that 1 day l will be able to look@ u or think about u and smile l love u
    1 Wish you was here to make me laugh through all this craziness
    1 I know you would be cutting up about all this πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 good afternoon, JJ. all hellhas broke loose down here. Happy you dont habe to suffer
    1 ❀️❀️❀️
    1 l miss you honey and l love you forever
    1 tee tee miss you πŸ˜˜πŸ’‹πŸ’”πŸ’”
    1 Miss you so much πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 I love you and miss you, my beautiful boy
    1 Good night my angel l love you always
    1 Love you, JJ.😘🎈
    2 Good morning JJ gramma misses you and love you so much
    1 Love u JJ❀️🀞🏽
    1 LLJJ πŸŒŽπŸ’—
    1 Up thinking about you bro 😫
    1 Good morning my Sunshine l love you so much and l miss you terribly
    1 love you nephew
    1 I miss you so much honey l just can't believe you are gone l love you
    1 πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•luv u mommas baby 4 ever
    1 l love and miss you more everyday
    1 πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 l miss you JJ l can't wait to see you again l love you
    1 I miss u so... so.... much😒😒idk how I can keep going without seeing your beautiful faceπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 lt is so hard to live without you l want to be where you are, gramma loves you
    1 l love you more and miss you more every day l don't care what anyone says you are perfect to me
    1 l love you JJ you will always be grsmmas Best Friend
    1 I miss you so fucking much πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 Happy Easter 🐣 mommas babyπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 Happy Easter honey l took you a snicker and a coke yesterday two of your favorites. l love you
    1 l love you so much l want to see you again so badly
    1 l love you JJ and l always will
    1 i miss you bro bro πŸ₯Ί
    1 πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ
    1 love u JJ❀️🀞🏽missing u like crazyπŸ˜”
    1 love you jj rest up i miss youπŸ’ͺ🏽 look over usπŸ–€
    1 l love you so much JJ l can't wait to see you again
    1 πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 l miss you so much JJ you are my special angel lnlove you honey
    1 Very Sorry for your loss
    1 another long day without l miss u so much andbl love you more
    1 l miss you my perfect angel gramma can't wait to see you again ❀
    1 Luv you mommas babyπŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 l miss you so much honey l love you forever
    1 I just want to be with youπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ˜©
    1 hey cuz!!❀️ love you tell my daddy and mike mike i said hey πŸ•Š
    1 l never want to become complacent about paying my deepest love for you
    2 i still havent opened the message you sent. i miss you ❀️
    1 4 months ago our life as we knew was forever changed and will never be the same without you πŸ’”
    1 Luv u πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 Gramma misses you so much my life is not the same without you πŸ’” u r my perfect angel πŸ’›
    1 Another long day without you. You should be here not the POS that took your life
    1 l miss you more everyday and my love for you has no limit
    1 The days are harder and the nights are longer l love you always ❀ πŸ˜‡πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ’”
    1 l still can't believe that l will never get to see him ag again πŸ’”
    1 Gramma loves you. l miss you so much. Can't wait to see you again
    1 its our month cuz May babies πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ₯€πŸ˜˜
    1 l love you honey this day isn't the same without you l love you
    1 I miss you l love you always
    1 You are always on my mind and in my heart l miss you and love you more
    1 l miss you JJ why did you have to leave mel love you
    1 πŸ’—πŸ’•
    1 πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’—πŸ˜‡β€
    1 I will carry you in my heart till we meet again l love u
    1 Mommas precious baby I luv u alwaysπŸ’•
    1 l love you JJ l am miserable without you
    1 l love you honey much more than words can express
    1 Love you Baby Boy
    1 l miss you so much. I love you more than anything
    1 Gramma misses you honey l will always love you
    1 l would give anything to have you back
    1 You are greatly loved and very much missed
    1 Gramma loves you always
    1 Happy birthday mommas precious baby! I’m going to try and have a good day for you today πŸ’•
    1 Happy Birthday my sweet angel. Gramma misses you 😒 l love you always
    1 Gramma loves you JJ and l miss you
    1 I truly hate my new life
    1 l miss you so much and l love you more
    1 it kills me to know l will never hear your voice or see you again Gramma loves you so much
    1 Yesterday was ur brothers 15 th bday and he was so sad without you we all miss u so muchπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 good morning my perfect angel my heart is broken and l love for eternity
    1 l love you honey and l miss you everyday all day
    1 good morning angel l love you always
    1 l miss you honey l could always count in you to make me smile
    1 l love you always my sweet angel
    1 l love you JJ gramma misses you more everyday
    1 life will never be the same my heart is broken πŸ’” love you for eternity
    2 Gramma misses you so much and l love you always
    1 you will always be my perfect angel I love uou
    1 l never want to live so long that l forget anything about you. l love everything about you
    2 Your death has changed everything the whole world is different now
    1 l miss you so much and l love you forever
    1 Gramma loves you and l miss you more everyday
    1 Always and forever
    1 Miss you and love you always
    1 Gramma loves you and my heart aches everyday
    1 l will mourn your loss in my life till the end of mine
    1 I miss you so much πŸ’•πŸ’•
    1 Everything about you was perfect that's why God wanted you. l love and miss you always
    1 l love you alwaya
    1 love you my angel πŸ˜‡
    1 hey cuz πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ’‰πŸ€žπŸ½πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜
    1 i miss u JJ❀️🀞🏽
    1 l miss you so much JJ
    1 I love b you JJ l hope you are at peace
    2 If love could've saved you you never would've died
    1 I miss you best friend, i know you are living it up with capo
    1 watch over your family we all are sick without you
    1 It's no easier today than it was 6 months ago l miss u and love you always
    1 love never dies
    1 I love you JJ
    1 πŸ’•πŸ’•β€οΈ
    1 why
    1 l love u honey
    1 JJ my world would be so much better now if you were here I love u πŸ’—
    1 another miserable day without my sunshineπŸ˜₯πŸ’”
    1 its been 6 months now and l still can't believe your gone l love you forever
    1 Good morning angel I love u πŸ’— πŸ’“ πŸ’› πŸ’– πŸ’• ❀
    1 l can't stop crying l miss you so much
    1 l will love you forever
    1 I will mourn your death till we meet again
    1 Gramma misses her angel so much
    1 I love you baby rest easy we got you
    1 Good afternoon, JJ. I think of you often. I miss you and love you!πŸ˜˜πŸ’•
    1 Good morning precious life is not the same without you I love you
    1 Hey baby ur an uncle now. You would have loved this little babyπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ˜©
    1 Good morning my beautiful angel l love you
    1 you will always be my special boy love never dies
    1 l miss you Uncle JJ I wish he could meet you but who knows maybe he has
    1 Good morning my angel i miss you so much
    1 Good morning precious angel Gramma misses you and l love you always πŸ’—
    1 l will never be able to make sense of this l miss you so much and love you always
    1 Gramma loves you
    1 Good morning my angel i miss you and love you for eternity
    1 Gramma love you always and forever
    1 l would give anything to see you l love you
    1 you are my precious angel now and l will always love you
    1 its never going to get any easier JJ you should be here not me
    1 we gotta do better people, put the damn guns down now
    1 Love N miss you, handsome! Gone way too soon! Good Nite, JJπŸ˜˜πŸ’•
    1 l love you
    1 I miss you JJ I will love you always ❀
    1 Good morning my angel πŸ˜‡ I miss you so very much and my love will never die πŸ’— πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ’”πŸ’”
    1 we all miss you so much and we love you beyond time

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