Terry Steven Whiteside Jr, age 38

Lost to gun violence on January 12, 2018 in Spartanburg, South Carolina.

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  • Nickname:
    5 Steven
    3 SMK
    3 my ninja
    3 Steven-bo-beaven
    1 bubba
  • Number of children:
    3 3 children. Leia, Karizma and Bodhi
  • Personality:
    3 Great Guy
    4 my heart
    2 my heart and first born
    3 always looking out for everyone elese
    2 awesome at snything he choose to di
    3 a great son he love his mama and i loved him
    2 My heart
  • Occupation:
    3 Electrical worker
    1 Painter
    1 Tattoo artist
    1 If it needed fixed he could do it
    2 protector
  • Workplace:
    2 helping everyone he could
  • Schools attended:
    2 Dorman high
    1 Woodruff junior high
    1 melbourne florida
    1 gable elementary
    1 sabal elementary. melb fl
  • Comments:
    1 i miss you son
    1 It’s been 1 mth since you were murdered my heart aches continuously
    2 missing you more everyday. i love you son
    1 It’s been 2 mths and 2 days it seem like a second ago I miss you I am lost without you son
    1 i miss you
    1 Im lost without you son. I
    1 My hero
    2 The words no, not possible we’re not in his vocabulary
    1 another day cant sleep the memories how they flow
    2 i miss my son
    1 msy 7th preliminary hearing for the scum tgat mudered my boy.
    1 please light a candel for my son...i miss him he should be here lm still so lost and broken
    1 you are my son you at significant to me to mean the world I'm at such a loss with you gone
    1 its the little things that keep me going thinking of you skateboarding is one of those things
    1 I will never forget.
    1 why could that not have been real I need To tell you I'm sorry
    1 I need to tell you I love you and I wish I could trade places
    1 I try each day to be ok but I'm not i pretend I am but I'm not I'm lost
    1 I need you to call and laugh and say got ya mom, I'm really I'm
    1 you no it s suppose to I'm really I'm. I love you Steven i regret so much
    1 it seems like this just happened. I'm so lost without you son
    1 it's been a year since we lost the love of your life Sheneise. I pray you both are watching over me
    1 I miss you so much. It’s so hard to go threw my days without you
    2 The days are getting harder to get threw. I miss you
    1 i miss you more each day
    1 I miss you. I don’t know how to do this without here
    1 Your mama loves you
    1 I don’t understand why doctors couldn’t save you.
    1 I’m as lost today as was the moment you left
    1 I miss you
    1 I am so broken and miss you son
    2 Here I am again. I am so broken son. I miss you
    4 I received your urn today it’s oriental and stands for eternal love
    2 never forget
    1 luv n miss u bubba
    1 I miss you so much son.
    1 its so hard being here without you son. it doesnt get any easier. i miss you
    1 I’m moving home but it seems wrong without you there
    1 I dreamed of you last night It seemed so real ... :( I love you and miss you
    2 your nieces and nephew and I all miss you.
    1 I miss you Steven. It seems to get harder each day without you here
    1 The 24th was Sheneise birthday I miss you both so much. Your babies are growing up too fast.
    1 they are beautiful, smart,kind, loving, funny, sweet, artistic and so much more.
    1 all the things you two hoped and dreamed they’d become We all miss you
    1 I know you watch over us I can feel it at times. It helps
    1 I miss you and can’t get you off my mind.
    1 It’s not getting any easier

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