Jerry Timothy Hudson, age 46

Lost to gun violence on May 15, 2017 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.

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  • Nickname:
    3 red headed tim
    3 tim
    1 Bubba
    1 babe
    1 "RED"
    1 father
    1 and dad
  • Number of children:
    2 uncle bobo
  • Personality:
    3 honery, but very loveable .. god feari g
    2 good spirit
    1 has heart of gold
    1 if he loved you he loved you for life
    1 always tried to make you laugh
    1 mischievous "the grasshopper "
    1 the father i wish i could've meet
  • Occupation:
    1 was a Jack of all trades
    1 loved fixing old cars especially that GTO his baby!!!
    2 worked at superior fence in okc also worked Oklahoma roofing
    1 built bikes for kids that couldn't get one
  • Workplace:
    2 worked at lide tank as laborer, n mexia ind products in early 2000's
  • Schools attended:
    3 mexia
    1 Utopia Jr. High
    1 Deer Park Elementary
  • Comments:
    2 believed in god and was a true friend,
    1 Bubba I love you and will not stop until Justice is served
    2 He was a good hearted person. and a true friend
    1 Bubba Loved all his family and friends death won't change that.. love bubba you're Sis
    1 I am so sad and heartbroken so sorry bubba I was not with you
    1 God is with us bubba cause your funeral is paid for
    1 Thank you God for all your blessings...in Jesus Christ name amen
    2 been telling caleb lots of stories about you missing you so much
    1 I love you bubba can't wait to see you jodee and Jeremy
    1 what happened to you was a tragedy your loving sister
    1 bubba your funeral ceremony was awesome so much love for you
    1 on Angels wings you soar always in my heart love you bubba ❤
    1 I miss you Bubba... life is not the same
    1 I won't rest until he pays for what he done to you
    2 my heart hurts everyday bubba I can't believe you were mudered
    1 I just miss you so freaking much Bubba
    1 caleb is here with me Bubba im watching over Caleb for you all my Love
    1 I love you bubba and miss you so freaking much
    1 I love you bubba ❤ I miss you dearly
    1 love you brother thanks for watching over us... missing you so much
    2 prayers!
    1 love you bubba so much and miss you like crazy it's so hard for me RIP
    1 I miss you so much and I want to see you and hear your voice
    1 my heart is broken and im so sad RIP Bubba
    1 im praying for Justice for you Bubba I miss you
    1 93 candles today bubba so many people loved you i miss you so freaking much
    2 seen Caleb today and he cut and dyes his hair and its red WOW
    3 caleb loves you cause he can still feel that bond y'all had bubba
    1 caleb had the biggest smile I've seen him have so far i know he loves you
    1 im still so sad and heartbroken cause our bond was so strong even death can't break it
    1 I love you so so much Bubba
    1 99candles WOW so much love i miss you so freaking much Bubba in my thoughts
    1 missing you so freaking much everyday theres such a void in my heart
    1 I miss you Bubba so freaking much I love you I want to see you hold you in my arms I love you
    1 105 candles today bubba missing you so much
    1 missing you so much Bubba I love you so much
    1 I miss you Bubba I love you so much please watch over me
    1 i truly miss you Bubba my heart is broken and I'm so sad... I love you
    2 red headed Tim I'll always Remember your smile
    1 I miss you Bubba so freaking much lots of tears have fallen for you Bubba
    1 missing you so much Bubba can't stop thinking about you all my love Sis
    1 first court hearing 9-18 missing you Bubba love you
    1 Monday Bubba love you miss you take care of Jeremy for me
    1 there will be a jury trial... love
    1 missing you so much bubba and so is Debbie
    3 Tim I love you and always will love Debbie and Polar
    1 see bubba we all love and miss you so freaking much
    2 the bear misses you so much I can see it in her eyes
    1 missing you so much bubba chuck
    1 me and the bear sometimes sing the song you made for her
    1 Tim I love you and miss you so much
    1 we miss you so much love Debbie and Polar
    1 I miss you so much bubba i so wish i could get a hug
    1 Happy Heavenly Thanksgiving...you were so missed today I love you
    1 I got to talk to Ms Mary
    1 I miss you so much and I love very much
    1 Polar misses you Daddy
    2 wishing you were here from Debbie and Polar
    1 we miss you we love you and we will never forget you
    2 I miss so muchn.
    1 I miss and love you bubba been real sick but better now
    1 started a new year and we sure miss you love polar and debbie
    1 I miss you Bubba I love you so much I can't keep the tears away
    1 I know sister they just come when they want to
    1 missing Bubba I love you so much kiss Jeremy for me baby
    1 i sure miss my juggalo man
    1 missing you so much and I love you so much always sis
    1 missing you so much and I love you so much take care of Jeremy Glen Weatherford for momma
    1 Doc says I am going crazy we all knew that lol I LOVE YOU BROTHER
    1 172 candles for you bubba love and missing you so much please hug me tight again
    1 I miss you Bubba I sure hate life without you kiss Jeremy for me
    1 See you soon we love and miss you love polar
    1 missing you so much bubba KISS Jeremy for me see Y'ALL soon💞
    1 😗😍💟💙💚💛💜💔🖤💖💗💞💕💓❤💘❣💫🌷🌼🌻💐🌸🥀⚘🌹🍀🎈🎀♥️♠️♦️🎲♣️🌝🌞🌜🌛🌟🌠🌈📍🇮🇱🇺🇸
    1 I love you so much BUBBA KISS Jeremy for me and hug him tight for me KISS granny mom
    1 and granddaddy miss y'all so very much life will never be the same 😢💔
    1 here in mexia with Paul looking at pix of you membering luv u
    1 membering about DP Elem how u came to school 30 min after school started
    1 U got out of school 30 min early the only only one...
    1 everyone @school was mad but paul
    1 u got 1hr less school everyday so you didn't get into fights
    1 I love
    1 missing you so much I love you so much and kiss Jeremy for me to 💜💟🏵🌸🌹🌷💐
    2 HAPPY 420 BUBBA...THINKING ABOUT YOU LOVE
    1 missing you BUBBA LOVE YOU BROTHER
    1 missing YOU
    1 missing my bubba memberingluv always talking in Mexia bout u
    1 went to ur grave😢missing u so much💟👼💜💚💙🌹
    1 missing u bubba luv u so much sorry I missed that last call
    1 Jayce had my phone BUBBA I wanted to talk to u 😢😢😢
    1 I've cried lots of tears because I missed that call😢😢😢
    1 me and the bear we love and miss you so very much love Debbie and polar
    1 missing u so much luv u thanks for watching over me🌹🌹🌹
    1 Hanna graduated last night she's just so beautiful I wish you were there bubba I miss u😢💖🌹
    1 life sucks bubba I'm the 'black sheep's now I can't even see Jayce I'm heartbroken
    1 HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY BUBBA I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU BROTHER 🎉🎁🎊🎂🍻🥂😢🌹
    1 my kids r done with me I'll not beg for love anymore bubbamiss you so much
    1 won't be long and I'll walk hand and hand with u
    1 this old life must pass away to get that eternal one I'm waiting on God willing
    2 Love you Jeremy Bubba mom jodee granny granddaddyil be there soon
    1 Tim I miss you more then words can say me and the bear we love you
    1 I miss u BUBBA tlk 2 Debbie I'll keep telling her u luv her 😢😚
    1 love you always baby
    1 I luv u BUBBA I MISS u so freaking much I'm sorry I wasn't a good sister to u
    2 Caleb is here I see you so much bubba a lot like u really happy see Jayce 2dau
    1 it fathers day I will forever love you bear said hi daddy
    1 love you BUBBA please watch over me if I needed u it's now😢💔
    1 missing u so freaking much I loveu bubba...🌹💜💚💙💖❤😢💔🌹
    2 Debbie please contact Debbie asap luv
    1 TIM ..WE MISS YOU FRIEND..LOVE YOU ..YOU WERE A GOOD FRIEND ..
    3 THIS SHOULDVE NEVER HAPPENED ..WHY..YOU WERE ALWAYS GOOD TO PEOPLE
    1 WE MISS BRO..
    1 keep ur hand on chucky he's going through an awful time now miss u and luv u bubba
    1 happy holidays baby I love you got to get ho to the bear we miss you much and always
    1 miss u still WISHING I had got that call BUBBA Jayce didn't know he lobes utube luv u
    1 If I had gotten that call u might have walked the other way
    1 i just hope my father can find justice for the man who killed him
    2 I love you caleb so much thank you
    1 missing u BUBBA I love u😙😙😙
    2 missing u BUBBA hoping august5will be when the court date set for ur killer👈👫👼☹😔
    1 justice must preveil
    1 2morrow is Jeremy's 19th bday bek won't let me speak 2 Jayce please keep ur hand on him💔💔💔
    1 Missing u bubba give Jeremy a happy heavenly b-day kiss for me love Y'ALL😙😙😙
    1 I miss u and Jeremy so much momma and jodee 2
    1 all of y'all that loved so much are living in Heaven waiting on me I'll be there soon
    1 hey dad and Jeremy hope you to are chilling where you guys are
    1 two sorry my bad
    1 i still think about with the song hey dad by good Charlotte
    1 *you
    2 I'm not a redhead bubba I never change my hair untill last nite
    1 wishing u could say what u thought about my hair we shared so much I miss u
    2 CH he loved hi more then anything and I promise he cried himself 2 sleep a million times
    1 *CJ*
    2 I know that song speaks to u but bubba truly and deeply loved u I promise won't ever lie to u
    2 CO he was a lost soul through his life and DIDN'T make the best decisions but his love 4 u was REAL
    2 *CJ* spell check sucks!
    1 i'm sorry just made me think about the lost relationship we didn't have i did not mean any harm
    2 cj all respect to u baby love u say wat u need 2 no worries
    1 missing u BUBBA I still need u so freaking much my God knows how much😔😔😔
    3 Been telling CJ how much u loved him u loved him as much as the air u breathe😔
    2 please give Jeremy MOM jodee kisses and hugs😔😔😭
    1 MISS u very MUCH love u I'll never let ppl forget u I love u more than knew I did
    1 talked 2 Travis says he still lives in same house w/Jeff got bunch grandkids...love you
    1 we love you tim we seen seen a picture of your son he sure is a little doll
    2 polar misses you so very much
    1 if its me the cj person i say your right about some of my spelling (caleb me )
    1 and im not taking offence if it is me lol
    1 and if its not me (caleb still) i have cj as a nickname funny enough
    2 YEAH CJ I know ur knick name this Aunt Debbie love u bunches...not ur spelling mine
    2 I miss u bubba guess I'm down here on earth messing up ppl lives as usual
    2 I love u CJ and so did ur dad very much
    1 hope your enjoying time with other legends
    1 hendrix ,cobain , bowie , Bennington , vinnie paul and sid
    1 or joplin or Mercury
    1 just hope the man that did what he did gets what coming
    2 that monster got caught on surveillance video God and bubba made sure of that
    3 hate saying the monster NAME but it's Jose Reyes Mascoto in jail since2 day after the MURDER
    3 hoping and praying court date set on 8/8 if no postponement
    1 i wanted to say hope your ok and doing well
    2 missing u so much BUBBA heart aches 2 hear ur VOICE love u so MUCH RIP
    1 I'm sorry i never talk to you out of fear dad
    1 I'm living fine so far I'm just heart broken you never see your son making to 16 and 9th grade
    1 *it
    1 and seeing your son is growing up
    1 i miss even if you were messed up or a missing piece of my life
    2 i still miss you - your son Caleb jeremy Hudson
    2 I'm always here for you CJ ANYDAY ANYTIME with all my love aunt debbie
    2 missing u bubba please help me say the right words to CJ FOR YOU
    2 court date Hell YEAH waited so long March 25 2019 will be there Lord willing
    2 i miss you - blink 182
    2 missing u bubba so much love u give kisses 2 my son I'll kiss urs😙
    2 tomorrow is my first of high school father hope you wish me well
    1 *day
    2 I know he is watching u and is so proud
    3 i still love you dad even if you were never there
    2 and i hope the bastard gets the justice he deserves for what he did
    2 to you i promise
    1 loving
    2 love u miss u watching CJ go through high school he is doing great💜🧡💛💚💙❤💝
    1 very sad lots 2 think about very tired luv u miss u😥💜😕
    2 going back 2day bittersweet miss u love u give jeremy kisses 4 me ok😓😙💜
    1 godspeed Jeremy and dad
    1 and hey you know when you were a rebellious metalhead well i kinda am but with punk and metal music
    1 not rebeling because i want but the society that treat good people like garbage
    1 that why i rebel to give the finger to a society that hate people who are different
    2 love u miss u bubba yes CJ so right I support u all the way 2 y'all society 🖕
    1 joddie i wish you the happiness that you didn't have my late aunt
    1 same as you Jeremy my late cousin i hope to your legacy still
    1 *keep
    1 same as you dad i hope i can be some hope in the hudson family name
    1 same with david and mathew Hanna and so even little jace
    1 *on
    2 we all miss u bubba it has effected our whole family
    2 cj and I love u so much we want u 2 know everyday we think of u
    2 kiss our loved ones tell them we are all thinking of y'all 😚💜🙏
    1 still missing you dad i'm still heart broken you will never see your son turn 16
    1 you know i wear only black thats why you never see bright colors on my back
    1 i wish i could wear a suit white but until that day arrive you'll know me as the man in black
    1 *of
    2 one of my favorite johnny cash songs
    1 the message in the song makes since to me
    2 even I'm not the biggest country fan johnny cash was different
    2 *thought
    2 cash felt like a free spirit
    2 away from the usual country music
    2 bubba loved Johnny cash the man on black miss u bubba
    2 yeah willie nelson and johnny cash are my favorites
    2 too
    2 your dad loved willie too baby y'all are so much alike
    1 i guess so 🤔 thinking about it
    1 happy almost October guys i love the sit of Halloween in the air
    1 and christmas too 😄
    1 which bring me a nightmare before Christmas feeling every time 🎃🎄
    1 have a happy Holiday dad ,Jodie and ,Jeremy
    1 where ever you guys are
    2 missing you bubba love you very much😥💋💖💙💗
    1 funely talking to david and Mathew at school even tho its been a while since i was at pauls
    1 *finally
    1 but only little thing like grades and if we dont have school next Monday
    1 *don't
    1 death will never stop you - my chemical romance
    1 *may sorry its not a song but its the name of a EP and reading through i thought it fit
    1 plus my chemical romance helped me through some dark times
    2 missing you bubba love you so much watching CJ while you watch Jeremy oxoxo
    1 happy to have a few rare comics dads that i got from a friend
    1 i don't if you were ever interested in comics but i am
    1 *know
    1 but if you were i love if we had that same interest and not just music
    1 not saying that its a bad thing
    1 and if we did i guess we would have been closer
    1 and hey if you see steve ditko and jack kirby can you tell them i say hi
    1 for me please
    2 thinking of u bubba missing u so much give Jeremy kisses love y'all 😥😚💜💙💖
    1 miss you dad let love left you high
    1 same as you Jeremy dear cousin
    1 why can't we give love that one more chance why can't we give love
    1 cause loves such an old fashioned word and love dares you to change our way
    1 and care for ourselves and the people at the edge of the light
    1 and caring about ourselves this is our last dance this is ourselves under pressure
    1 both Mercury and bowie with this song insprired me with hope
    1 and it stands as one of my favorite songs by queen (and mr. bowie of course)
    1 even tho today is my birthday i give a gift of love my dear father
    2 miss you bubba had to come back to texas
    2 and I'm never leaving Texas again!!!!
    2 😊
    2 miss you bubba give Jeremy kisses love y'all 😥💋💜
    2 I'm so sad bubba wish I was with you and jeremy love hugs and kisses😪😪😪
    1 hey dad i guess you stan lee are meeting finally i wish both of you love and care
    1 *and
    1 happy Thanksgiving tomorrow guys
    2 we love and miss you baby love Debbie and Polar
    2 not a day goes by without you love you
    2 we will always love you too Debbie
    2 everyone needs love thats what i believe
    3 love n miss u bubba💔love u debbie 💋❤
    2 dad i am sorry that i was scaried to see you when you were alive
    2 and its a shame because in ways we were so alike
    2 to actually have a father/son thing
    2 I miss u so much bubbabut Caleb needs u wrap ur arms around him
    2 I am here for u Caleb always
    1 yeah and thank you
    2 heavenly merry Christmas bubba I luv u
    2 starting another year without you bubba luv u
    1 I miss u so much bubba cant wait to join u and Jeremy 😭💔
    1 3/28/19 is coming soon for that monster who took u from us
    1 everyone write that victim impact statement so that monster has 2 hear every word written
    1 missing through these holidays bubba.i love you
    2 missing u so much bubba feeling so lonely these days I will see again soon luv u
    2 if i was to make a request after my passing it is to buried near my father
    2 so he can finally be with his son
    2 no fear , no shame just love
    3 your dad loved you and talked about you all the time all the time I was there for six years I know
    1 hi baby me and the bear miss you so much and know we will see you again
    1 Debbie I love you and I went to the doctor said
    1 kidneys leaking protein for 15years maybe they will pass me
    1 disability and I can once again take care of the bear and me
    2 love you always Debbie and Polar the bear bear
    1 i ment the fear from me and the shame my dad felt
    1 about himself that made him feel like he wasn't good enough to see me
    1 and the fear i felt toward him for not knowing him to much
    1 I love u CJ
    1 if u could have been with u he would have been in heaven chase he was as so proud of u
    1 CJ u were the light of his life he always w as noted a son
    1 debbie I miss u wish I could see u again but I pray u get ur disability
    1 I love u and so glad u have polar bear he loved that dog!
    1 missing u so much bubba Jaycee lives with me now so happy bout that!
    1 miss u bubba RIP EITH ALL MY LOVE...KISS JEREMY
    2 Hello my Valentine I love you always
    1 polar misses her daddy everyday
    1 so sad bubba both of my children hate me even said it to me
    2 not which pain is worse losing a child in death or losing you're kids in life
    1 I just want to die to this life and live with you and Jeremy hope it's really soon
    2 damn it hurts hearing your family say they hate you
    2 i still love you debbie same as i do bek and chuck
    2 even at times we have had fight i feel family should love each other
    2 *our family i mean sorry
    3 much love to u CJ ur my family and I miss you
    3 missing u bubba please watch over me give Jeremy kisses
    1 hey im now on pills to help balance out my depression
    1 i dont feel different but my doctor and mom will see changes
    1 and everyone else
    1 but if it gets out of hand they will kinda up my dosage
    1 no not kinda why did i say that
    2 love you CJ so glad you are getting help
    3 see bubba CJ Is doing good kiss Jeremy for me
    1 well hey finely getting out of winter it was freezing
    1 but suck that we are getting into summer its to hot
    1 why can't it be like fall and the spring they are jusy right tempures
    1 *just
    1 but whatever we go into a season circle
    1 I love you crazy man and I'll see you again polar misses you daddy
    2 Debby he made me love him forever
    1 I know I love u 2 bubba give Jeremy kisses
    1 missing u bubba
    2 my birthday a few days away and I just wish you were my present
    1 missing u bubba and jeremy and jodee and mom...love y'all very much kisses
    1 missing u bubba so is Larry hes in OKC remembering
    1 missing you so much bubba give Jeremy kisses from momma love yall
    1 miss u bubba
    1 yes bday
    1 *great*
    1 tim we love and miss you baby love the popo bear
    1 missing you bubba take care of my Jeremy till momma comes home
    1 HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY BUBBA I MISS AND LOVE YOU
    1 hi tim i think of you all the time i sure miss you i guess you were right im gonna be old and alone
    1 i still got the bear and she misses you very much every man she sees she is looking for her daddy
    1 we know one day we will all be back together again love you baby daddy
    1 missing u so much kiss Jeremy for momma hug mom
    1 missing you bubba
    1 missing my family of Angel's LOVE Y'ALL
    1 hey baby missing you life is hard you were right im gonna die alone but when i do ill get to see you
    1 bear is staying with tammy and sindy they are taking good care of her we love and miss you
    1 missing you so freaking much bubba kiss jeremy for momma
    1 I love you bubba 🥰🥰🥰
    1 so sorry bubba but the trial was postponed AGAIN I love and miss u
    1 missing u so much bubba kiss jeremy for me love y'all
    1 always thinking about u bubba kiss jeremy for momma luv u
    1 missing u bubba kiss jeremy momma jodee granddad granny love y'all
    1 missing yall bubba kiss jeremy for me love y'all
    1 yeah bubba 700 candles for u I love and miss u
    1 Tim i know i dont come here enough but you di know my heart
    1 and you know i love and miss you everyday
    1 polar is good i got to go see her and got to watch her play ball
    1 love you always
    1 love you always momma and the bear
    1 missing you bubba I love you give Jeremy a kiss from momma
    1 Tim its 5 minutes till midnight new years eve 2020
    1 im with the bear and we miss you so much
    1 happy new year all our love debbie and polar
    1 😍😀😃😄😍😍🎆🎇
    1 happy new year we love you and miss you
    1 missing you...I'm in Colorado and its beautiful hugs n kisses
    1 that idiot got 30 yrs bubba he plead guilty...I love you bubba
    1 miss you bubba love you more kiss jeremy
    1 another bday passed without you calling me I'll never get use to that I miss u bubba
    1 wow bubba theres a pandemic and so many deaths 35 hundred deaths in USA yesterday smdh
    1 please keep ur hands on our family bubba especially Hannah Jo shes sick bubba
    1 HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY I LOVE AND MISS U BUBBA 3 LONG YEARS NOW
    1 missing you bubba love u and Terry said he missed you to
    1 I missus and I love u bubba so hard to live without u
    1 missing u bubba half 2020 is gone I love u
    1 hey Dad just wanted to come by and pay my respects hope your doing good love you and have a good one
    1 and school is also going well
    2 and mom is also doing good
    1 hey Dad my birthday is coming up in a couple of days
    1 and I thought about the plans I made before you know what happened and maybe talking
    1 maybe discussing how life was for us and maybe even bonding for the first time in years
    1 there isn't a moment I don't think about that and my birthday that day that is special
    1 but I just hope you are doing fine tell Jodie and Jeremy I say hi
    1 and I love y'all miss ya
    1 happy heavenly Thanksgiving bubba I miss
    1 I love you caleb so much and UR dad loved u even more
    1 I miss u bubba take good care of jeremy jodee momma I love yall
    1 1-4-21 chuckys bday i miss u bubba almost 4 yrs since youve left us luv u
    1 it snowed bubba membering our snow ball fights miss u bubba
    2 hey Dad your birthday is coming up happy early birthday
    3 and I'm hopefully gonna get my drivers license
    1 in June
    2 also if I find the right college and get a degree in graphic design I could work for a comic company
    2 called iverse media which they are in Waco
    2 I'm just so happy and mom's doing good
    2 tell Jeremy and Jodie I love them also
    2 just hope you, grandma GG and grampa Larry are hanging around and maybe
    1 talking to each having some of the family meet each other love you Dad
    1 i miss u bubba give jeremy a kiss and hug for both yall
    1 mussing you bubba 5 long yrs love you bunches
    1 oh CJ is graduating im so proud I know you are!!!
    1 CJ is a really good son and very caring and kind I know you are so proud of him
    1 happy heavenly bday cj graduated i wasnt there i wish was tho so proud of him love you babba
    1 i really really miss you bubba
    1 12/15/23
    1 Always on my mind, forever in my heart
    1 7/21/24 I miss you and I'll always love you hope to see you in God's time
    1 Polar is up there and I know she already found you

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