Kaden Mae Harkins, age 25

Lost to gun violence on April 15, 2023 in Urbana, Ohio.

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  • Nickname:
    60 KDdidit
    14 "ForEver & ForAlways"
  • Number of children:
  • Personality:
    61 outgoing,loving,sweet
    53 Loving, Kind, Beautiful inside and out, A smile that could light up any room.
    53 Very giving and Loved Helping others
    53 Outgoing, Loving,Sweet and A Heart of Gold
    23 My Heart is heavy with sadness without you, Kaden. I Love You.
    14 "We Miss YOU, KADEN."
  • Occupation:
    53 Counselor/ Case Worker
  • Workplace:
    53 Caring Kitchen Urbana,Ohio
    14 "ForEver Loved, Never Forgotten"
  • Schools attended:
    53 Jefferson County High School Class of 2015
    52 Bardstown, Bullitt East,
    13 "Forever Treasured, Never Forgotten"
    12 A piece of me left the day you went to Heaven. I miss MyGirl!
  • Comments:
    54 I am truly sorry this happened to you Kaden. You are loved and will be truly missed!😔 😥❤🙏
    63 i love you i miss you so so much!! - Your big little brother
    62 love & miss you so much KadenMae.❤️ -mercedes
    59 Kaden you took my heart with you, my sweet girl.
    54 oh my baby. Momma loves you!
    54 Kaden Momma Loves You. ForAlways&Forever
    54 Kaden Our thoughts are full of memories with you. We miss you more every passing day.❤️Momma
    54 Momma misses you more each passing day.
    54 My life will never be the same now. I pray that you know how much that momma loved you.
    55 I would have done anything to save you.
    55 ❤️I love you Kaden.
    55 I love you more today than yesterday. But. Not as much as tomorrow.❤️
    55 Kaden.Every moment without you here is hard for me.
    54 It was a blessing to have you for my Daughter.
    55 But. It was an honor being your mother. I LOVE YOU
    55 Momma will see you again,My Baby! I love you, ForEver&ForAlways!
    53 "Momma Loves You, My Baby!"
    53 Kaden. Momma Loves You.Today & Everyday after.
    53 Kaden. Momma misses you more each passing day.
    54 My life will never be the same now.
    54 I pray that you know how much that momma loved you. I would have done anything to save you.
    54 Kaden your Momma is thinking about you.
    53 Momma LOVES YOU AND MISSES YOU.
    54 I AM Sorry that I was not there to Protect you. ForEver & ForAlways ❤️YourMomma
    54 Thinking,Loving,Missing you. ForEver&ForAlways 💔YOURMOMMA
    54 I love you as I have always loved you every day of your life,
    54 and I will continue loving you every day for the rest of mine. 💔YourMomma
    54 Thinking of you and missing you my baby. 💔YourMomma
    54 Kaden, I love you, and I am so very sorry that I let this happen to you.
    53 I can not forgive myself because you are no longer here with me.
    54 I don't know how to pull myself back from this tragedy.
    54 Today, I learned so many things about what all your small body endured.
    52 It is unbearable for me to know.
    54 Kaden, I am so sorry he did this to you and to me. 💔 YourMomma
    54 Thinking about you Kaden and every moment of joy you brought into our lives.
    54 You remain irreplaceable and our love continues to grow.
    54 We carry you everywhere with us and we will make you proud. ❤️YourMomma
    54 Today Kaden, your Momma misses you!
    54 My life has forever changed now without you here with us.
    54 I love you forever, my daughter, 💔YourMomma
    53 I spent my whole day today missing you, baby. 💔YourMomma
    54 Thinking of you, Kaden I'm so thankful to have had you in my life. YourMomma misses you💔
    54 Kaden, Momma loved you your whole life and she will miss you for the rest of hers.
    53 My love continues growing stronger everyday. I love you! 💔YourMomma
    52 Momma misses you Kaden, I love you more with each passing day.
    53 Kaden. I am so proud to have been chosen to be your Momma and more proud that you are my daughter!
    53 I miss you, Kaden! 💔YourMomma
    53 I hope you know how much you are loved and missed. Kaden I am so sorry this happened to you. I❤️You!
    53 Kaden. I am so lost without you! 💔YourMomma
    53 Thinking about you. Life doesn't feel the same without you here. I love you, Kaden!💔YourMomma
    52 Thinking of you my beautiful daughter. Momma loves you and misses you!💔
    51 Woke up thinking about you. Momma misses and loves you.
    50 Today has been so very hard without you. I ❤️ you Kaden! 💔YourMomma
    50 Tonite is very hard, I cannot sleep. My thoughts are racing and I sure do miss you.💔YourMomma
    48 Heavens lucky to have you and so was I. Momma misses you😘
    47 Momma loves you and I am thinking about you.
    45 Thinking about you Kaden💔
    45 Momma is so sorry for what this monster has done to you. We love you, we miss you💔
    45 Momma loves you Kaden, I am thinking about you. I wish you were here with us!
    45 "Kaden you are loved beyond measure!"
    44 Momma is thinking about you this morning.I love you!
    44 Thinking and praying for Jaie and Kaden everyday.
    43 We love you Kaden we miss you and think about you everyday!💔
    41 Thinking about you this morning baby. Momma loves you!💔
    40 Momma is with you thinking about tonite being 175 days since you left my world.
    40 Everyday we miss you, our love continues growing and we carry you with us everyday 💔YourMomma
    40 Momma is thinking, loving and missing you more everyday.💔
    39 We are thinking about you today Kaden❤️‍🩹💔
    39 Momma is thinking about you baby!
    36 183 days now 6months today, you left my world and I miss you so much!💔YourMomma
    36 ForEver & ForAlways you have my heart, Momma Loves YOU, Kaden💔
    37 Kaden I have loved you for every moment since seeing you for the first time.
    37 In my HEART there is a VERY special place that remains YOURS only.I will ALWAYS LOVE YOU.
    38 My daughter you will Always hold the KEY TO MY HEART!💔YourMomma
    38 Thinking about you, Loving, Missing You. My #1 MommasGirl!
    36 I miss you so much Kaden!💔YourMomma
    36 I will never forget you Kaden praying for your mom and brother
    36 Lighting a candle to honor you, little lady. You will always be greatly missed.
    37 And Kaden you will always be remembered and forever loved.
    37 Thinking of you today Kaden Mae. Loving and Missing YOU.
    37 Everything I do, I continue doing for us. I miss you Kaden!
    37 I made it and am going through with what I must do now. I will always think about you.
    36 Miss you and ache for you, nothing could have prepared me for never being able to have you here.
    37 I surround myself of the beautiful memories all the years I did have you hear with me.
    37 I surround myself with things of yours, thoughts of you, as you grew over the years here with us.
    38 You are never far from your mommas thoughts and I carry you always in my heart.💔YourMomma
    38 Kaden your Momma is thinking about you, Loving and missing you tonite!
    38 Kaden, I love you! ForEver & For always💔YourMomma
    36 Thinking of you today Kaden, a little girl was born and named after you today!
    35 The baby has been named, Kaiya Mae. We ALL miss you here.💔YourMomma
    34 We miss you Kaden and we think about you everyday!
    34 Thinking about you tonight. Momma is here with you sweetheart. I miss my Kaden!
    33 Everyday is so very hard Kaden. Saturday nights are the worst for me. 💔YourMomma
    32 Momma is up thinking about you, looking through our messages💔
    34 Momma would do anything to bring you back home!
    33 Kaden, not one day has gone by that I don't think about you!
    34 I miss every single little thing about you. You will always be my baby!!
    34 Thinking about you! Your Momma loves and misses you. ForEver & ForAlways
    33 Momma is thinking about you,Kaden.
    33 Missing that beautiful smile so much!💔YourMomma
    31 Each passing day, I wake up missing you more than the day before. I love you Kaden!💔YourMomma
    32 Another day Without my twin, girl you are so loved and missed here with us.💔YourMomma
    31 Momma Loves YOU, Kaden!💔
    32 ForEver, ForAlways My Girl 💔YourMomma
    32 Thinking of you, Kaden 💔Momma
    31 Your Momma is thinking about you baby, I love you!💔
    31 Kaden there is so much I wish I could tell you, I miss you so much!
    31 I am thinking and missing you Kaden!
    31 Momma is thinking about you and missing you so much!
    29 You are loved and you will be missed greatly,Kaden.
    28 Your Momma loves you baby!
    29 Momma is thinking about you tonight. I miss you every second I am awake!
    29 Kaden You ARE ForEver Loved and will never be Forgotten!💔YourMomma
    30 Missing that beautiful smile and face, still cannot believe this.
    28 If I could only turn back those hands of time. I love you, Kaden
    28 Thinking of you cannot turn my mind off. I don't know what this boy has done to all of us.
    29 I am so sorry for what he has done to our family.💔YourMomma
    28 I missing you and trying hard everyday to find my way. I am broken
    28 Kaden Your Momma sure loves and misses you. I am so sorry
    29 Kaden. I miss you! Momma is thinking about you so much!
    28 💔Your Momma loves you, I miss you and think about you constantly.
    28 I carry your heart Kaden, I carry it in mine💔
    28 Momma is thinking about you the rain has waken me up. I am sorry that I let this happen. I miss you!
    27 💔Momma is thinking about you, babygirl!
    27 "Thinking, Loving, Missing You!" 💔YourMomma
    26 Momma sure loves and misses you sweet girl.
    25 Missing, Loving and thinking about you, my baby!💔YourMomma
    26 My beautiful Kaden that smile that could light up the darkest times. You are so loved!
    25 I am so thankful to have been blessed being your mother. I miss you!💔
    25 Momma is restless unable to sleep continously thinking about you!
    25 I am fighting for you, I won't let him take your truck.You have given this bum enough now.
    25 We miss you so much, we think about you everyday. We love you, Kaden💔
    24 Thinking,Loving, Missing you everyday!💔YourMomma
    23 Dear Kaden, I miss you! 💔YourMomma
    23 Your Momma is here. I am thinking about you, loving, missing you.
    23 I am so very sorry for what has been done and happening.
    23 If I could go back, it would not be this outcome. Stay beside me, give me strength.
    23 💔You, Kaden are forever my baby girl!
    23 you deserved so much more Kaden. Love you and miss you. -Caitlin 🤞❤️
    22 Momma is thinking about you. Loving and missing you💔
    22 "Kaden YourMomma loves you!"
    22 Kaden you are so loved and missed, how much I wish you were here.
    21 Kaden. I am so sorry that the system completely failed you.
    22 Both in Kentucky and Ohio because Noone wanted to do their jobs.
    22 Kaden. You are A HERO losing your life getting a very bad person.
    21 Off the streets and back behind bars because the Police did NOT do their jobs!
    22 Everyone failed you, including Momma!
    22 I will always Grieve for you and wish that you would have told Momma how scared you were.
    22 Now. Looking back, I see the signs you were giving that I missed!
    22 I love you, My Baby, I am so sorry for what he has done now.
    22 He took you away and you were doing everything to make us proud. Momma & Bubba knew!
    22 Momma still knows that there is so much being hidden!
    22 You rest now and I hope you can see how much love that I have for you and that will always remain.
    20 💔Momma is thinking about you! I love you, Kaden😪
    20 YourMomma is thinking about you. I miss you and I love you, Kaden!
    20 Today is my First Birthday without you, it's so hard for me.
    20 I am so heartbroken knowing that I will not ever enjoy any new memories with you.
    20 "I love you,Kaden and I always will!"
    19 You will always be YourMommas Girl!
    19 YourMomma is thinking about you tonight,I miss you. I love you.
    19 I am so sorry for what this boy has done to you. My 💔 I think about you constantly!
    19 The hurt doesn't stop! I miss you here with us. Life feels so empty! YourMomma loves you.
    18 Kaden. Today is our 1st Christmas without you with us💔
    18 Thinking about you and missing you! I sure hope that you are up there in Heaven dancing and smiling.
    17 There are no words that can explain how much you are loved and missed. YourMomma Loves You!
    17 Momma is thinking about you, I miss you, Kaden!
    17 I am sorry that I could not protect you from this happening!
    17 I will always have something inside of me missing without you here with me.
    17 "ForEver & ForAlways you will always be YourMommas Girl!'
    17 YourMomma is thinking about you this morning, "MyBaby"
    16 Momma is thinking about you. I miss you, Kaden. I love you so very much!
    15 YourMomma is thinking about you, Kaden. I miss you so much!
    15 Having a moment and Missing You. YourMomma loves you and I am so sorry!
    15 38mins away from a New Year, Kaden. I miss you every waking moment!
    15 I hope that you are resting now that the sentencing has passed. I miss you!
    15 I hope that you are smiling without anymore sadness or tears.
    15 My heart is so sad because you really had no idea just how special and important you always were.
    15 We Miss You. We Love You and we are always thinking of you, Kaden.
    15 YourMomma is so very sorry that this has happened. I will miss you everyday for the rest of mine.
    13 YourMomma is thinking about you and missing you so much!
    15 We love you baby! We talked about you alot today. There is so much love still left here for you!
    15 I promise you today on this first day of the NewYear 2024, We will make you very proud!
    15 We will celebrate you and all the goodness you were doing for yourself and others.
    15 We keep you close in Our Hearts all day everyday.
    15 YourMomma is thinking about you, that beautiful smile of yours.
    15 I miss hearing you laugh and watching your hands as you always got so tickled.
    15 You are so loved and I will grieve your absence everyday until we are together again.
    15 This still is so hard to process so heartless and cold.
    15 We miss you every second and our lives will never go back to being the same without you.
    15 ForEver & ForAlways is how long our hearts will remain full of love for you.
    15 That you were here with us. We love you and miss you more everyday.
    16 25 years was no where near long enough but we are so thankful for every moment.
    15 💔YourMomma is thinking about you!
    15 "Momma misses you so much!"
    14 I miss you, Kaden. I am celebrating your life everyday. Trying to be positive!
    14 This is your birth month, we have all had our first birthdays without you here and now it is yours.
    14 We continue gathering new photos celebrating your life and the changes in ours.
    14 We will always include you. We miss you, Kaden. Nothing has changed our love for you.
    14 I Love you and I continously am looking for signs from you.💔YourMomma
    13 YourMomma is thinking about you, I miss you so much!
    13 I pray that you will not forget me and when my time comes to join you, it will be your hand.
    13 Your hand that comes reaching for mine, greeting me with that beautiful smile.
    13 I cannot wait to hold you and hug you again. Kaden, I love you!💔YourMomma
    12 This is your Birthday month and so I have decided to celebrate you everyday until the 28th
    12 I celebrate you everyday in many different ways. Momma misses you so much!
    12 I love you,Kaden! ForEver & ForAlways
    11 "YourMomma is missing you so much today!"
    11 💔I am so sorry for what has happened to you! I love you, Kaden!
    11 25 years was nowhere near long enough.
    10 Kaden. I am so sorry that there has not been more that I could do.
    10 This has all been a nightmare to process, the way things have been handled is so sickening.
    10 I wish I could do this all over again to have just known the outcome even still.
    10 I am so very sorry for everything and anyone that has disrespected you even in death.
    10 I miss everything we use to do together. I wish we could have done so many more things.
    10 I love you, Kaden and I will always love you.
    10 YourMomma is thinking about your smile tonight. I miss your laugher!
    9 "YourMomma is missing you!"
    10 I MISS YOU 💔
    10 I MISS YOU💔
    9 Kaden. I am thinking about you alot today. 💔 I❤️YOU😪🥹
    9 Kaden we are so very sorry for not being there to protect you. Our LOVE is ForEver for you!
    9 "There is no one that could ever replace you. Kaden, we all LOVE & MISS YOU!"
    8 YourMomma is thinking about you, I love you, Kaden.
    8 I miss you, this is still so hard to process. We think about you everyday and talk about you.
    8 Momma is so sorry that this has happened to you. Help me to forgive myself! I love you.
    8 YourMomma is sure missing you. I am slowly trying to find ways to make it through
    8 YourMomma is sure missing you. I am doing things making you proud trying to ease this pain.
    8 I ask myself everyday as I push trying to get through. I miss you, MyBaby!
    8 We are grieving in sorrow, disliking this new way. We carry you always!
    8 And our love we still carry each and every day!
    8 Kaden. We are here and in a few hours it will be time. We love you!
    8 ForEver & ForAlways you are YourMommasGirl. Kaden, I love you!
    7 Kaden YourMomma sure does miss you!
    7 I am having one of those moments that nothing about this is ok
    7 A moment that I get angry because your young life has been taken.
    7 I was not ready ever for one of my babies to leave this world before me.
    7 I miss you and think about you constantly. I am praying for you to visit me in my dreams.
    6 💔I💔 miss 💔you💔 Kaden!💔
    6 YourMomma is thinking about you
    6 Loving and Missing You SO MUCH this morning!
    6 Kaden. I woke up again to this nightmare without you. The pain is so real!
    6 I am so sorry for what this boy has done and taken away from us. I love you, MyBaby. I Love You💔
    6 What I would give to see your smile and to feel your kisses again.
    4 Sleep is still so hard for almost all of my waking moments are thoughts of you. I miss you💔
    6 I miss you Kaden these are the hardest days of my life without you!
    6 I love you and I miss you every second.
    6 I don't know some days how to do life without you here.
    6 💔 My heart is ForEver broken without you!
    6 Dear Kaden. YourMomma misses you, I love you, MyBaby 💔
    6 I hope you know how much that I have always loved you because I am always gonna love you.
    6 Today is your Birthday and you would have been celebrating turning 26.
    6 Kaden. I miss you so much, I love you and I am always thinking about you. Stay close to me!
    6 Aniexty very high the closer today was getting. Send Momma a sign and I pray everyday for you still.
    6 Help me stay strong and keep helping me grow stronger.
    6 I am so tired Kaden, help me rest and show me if what I am doing is ok
    6 Let me see your smile today. I hope you are smiling and dancing up in Heaven today.
    6 Today is your First Birthday in Heaven. I am lost without you!
    6 YourMomma sure does miss you!💔
    6 I love you, Kaden!
    6 💔YourMomma is thinking about you. I miss laughing together.
    6 I am so lost without you most of the time. You could always make me laugh.
    6 I miss laughing with you and all of your silliness.
    6 I love you Kaden and I would do anything to bring you back.
    6 💔MyHeart is forever broken!
    6 Your Momma is thinking about you. Kaden you have made me want to be better and do better for you.
    6 I miss you, every second. YourMomma sure loves and misses you.
    5 Kaden. I miss you, I love you and I am thinking about you!
    6 Sleeping is so very hard. At night time the aniexty begins. My life has changed so much.
    5 Kaden. I am missing you💔YourMomma
    4 Kaden. YourMomma is thinking, loving and missing you this morning!
    4 Momma loves and misses you, MyBaby!
    4 Thinking about you and missing you so much!
    4 YourMomma is thinking about you. I am missing you!💔
    4 Mygirl,I love you so so very much.
    4 I just want to say, I love you, Kaden.
    4 You're never far from my thoughts. I still have not found words for the hurt.
    4 Thinking about you MyBaby. You are YourMommas Girl!💔
    5 Somedays are still so hard without you here with us.
    4 Thinking of you and crying tonite, I am so sorry Kaden
    4 I miss everything about you!
    4 So many people message me about you still. We all think,love and miss you.
    4 I would do anything for one more moment,one more kiss. Life is so different!
    4 I just wish it could be possible to wake up from this nightmare.
    4 YourMomma loves you and I hope you will remember me!
    4 YourMomma is Thinking, Loving and Missing You
    3 YourMomma is thinking about you. I hope you are up in Heaven smiling every second.
    3 I miss you, Kaden! Nothing has been easy here without you. YourMomma love you.
    3 I am unsure there will be a day that's easy without you. I am missing you today !
    3 YourMomma is thinking about you this morning!
    3 I love you. I miss you. I always think about you. Kaden
    3 My heart is forever 💔 broken without you here with me.
    3 Save a spot close to you for Momma. I pray everyday that you smile continually in Heaven now.
    2 💔YourMomma loves and misses you,MyBaby🌹🕊
    2 Come see me, Kaden sometimes in my dreams. 🌻🐝 I love you,Always. ❤️ YourMomma
    1 YourMomma is thinking about you. I love you and I miss you, Kaden.
    1 Help me find the strength because YourMomma gets so lost sometimes. This life is so hard!
    1 YourMomma misses you and I love you, so very much. ForEver & ForAlways
    1 I miss you. I love you and YourMomma is always thinking of you.
    1 I am so, so very sorry for what this boy has done to you and taken away from me.
    1 We miss you, Kaden! ForEver & ForAlways you are loved and will be remembered.
    1 YourMomma is thinking about you, I cannot sleep. I miss you,Kaden.
    1 YourMomma loves you and I just cannot believe that this has happened still.
    1 ForEver & ForAlways you will always be MyBaby. 💔YourMomma

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