Jay Aaron Foust, age 45

Lost to gun violence on May 21, 2019 in Durham, North Carolina.

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  • Nickname:
    4 Jay Bird
    3 Putt
  • Number of children:
    7 4
  • Personality:
    2 Loving kind giving faithful wonderful dad
    1 best friend
    1 best friend you could ever have
    1 biggest ray of sunshine you could ever meet
  • Occupation:
    1 security
  • Workplace:
    1 allied universal
  • Schools attended:
    1 Jordan high school
    1 Durham technical community college
  • Comments:
    2 my best friend for over 30 years. i miss you Jay bird. play some putt putt with God for me
    1 biggest brightest smile
    1 I miss you. how do I go on without you
    1 another day without you. I miss you
    1 I miss your smile
    1 I miss your laughter
    2 I love you
    1 Another day. I miss you. I love you
    1 I miss you.
    2 Not a day goes by that I don't miss you. I love you so much
    1 I miss you. happy 4th of july
    1 good morning. I love you
    1 4 days and you aren't here
    1 I miss you putt. I love you
    1 Take care of Ava. I love you guys
    1 it's my birthday. I miss you. love you
    1 I was never ready for you to leave.i miss you
    1 I love you Jay. We miss you down here
    1 another long day. I wish you were here
    1 2 months. why havent the solved this
    1 I love you I miss you.
    1 rember playing putt putt? I fell in love that day
    1 Rember Eno river. I rember watching that water rescue.
    1 I rember 17
    1 you are loved
    1 Thank you for being my everything always.i love you
    1 almost 3 months. have you slipped through the cracks?
    2 I love you my bird. I miss you
    1 i miss you.. so many memories
    1 We miss you down here.
    1 3 months today. it's not any easier. i love you
    1 i miss you my love. i love you
    1 life isn't the same. i miss you
    1 i can't do this without you. i miss you
    1 this isn't any easier. i miss you.
    1 i miss you..
    1 i love you
    1 I'll never get over you. but i don't know hour to get through this eaither
    1 i have lit a candle every day for the last 142 days... i miss you like crazy. i love you Jay Aaron
    1 please look out for me up there..
    1 your daughter got her drivers license today. look out for her keep her safe

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